Please help! I'm in a relationship but I'm obsessed with a guy that's not my boyfriend!?

I think guys are more interesting when it's new and there's that excitement about finding out everything you can. However, that initial excitement does wane and you're left with the everyday mundaness of who that person is and all the hang ups and faults they have. You've been in a relationship for the past four years, which signifies to me, that you've dealt with the hang ups and are saying to your boyfriend that you still love him. If you're getting bored, then do something that is unfimilar to the both of you...it could be taking ballroom lessons, bungee jumping, whatever you've been interested in doing but never got the courage or had the time.